Laugh hard build confidence.Self-confidence is vital in almost every aspect of our lives, yet many people struggle to find it. Hearing about self-confidence a question arises in our mind, what is self- confidence? Self-confidence is understanding that you trust your own judgment and abilities and that you value yourself and feel worthy regardless of any imperfections or of what others may believe about you.
Self-confidence is linked to almost every element involved in a happy and fulfilling life.The more confident you become, the more you’ll be able to calm the voice inside you that says-“I can’t do it!” Building confidence means taking small steps that leave a testing sense of accomplishment.
As our confidence grows, we’ll find ourselves more driven to stretch our abilities. Self-confidence gives us the skills and coping methods to handle setbacks and failures. Self-confidence doesn’t mean you won’t sometimes fail, but you’ll know you can handle challenges and not be crippled by them. As you keep pushing yourself to try new things, you’ll start to truly understand how failure and mistakes lead to growth. An acceptance that failure is a part of life will start to take root.
The main reason we struggle with little issues is that we compare our life with someone else’s. If we want to compare, next time we should compare our own development, believe in our own abilities. There are people who want to change themselves just because someone else said something. Just because other people said something doesn’t mean that’s the truth! This is our self-doubt and lack of confidence. Your doubt will kill your good thoughts and make your life miserable.
Sometimes the people will talk behind you because they can’t stand your glow and your happiness. You never know how worthy you are! You are brighter than your doubts. Life is too short to doubt yourself. So, change your perspective and know who you are.
Written by: Taquia Labiba